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Here’s what spanking does to your kids. Its not good, claim doctors.

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Parents who hit their children may trust that a swat “just gets their attention” or implements out-dated discipline.

Yet spanking in actuality makes conduct worse than previous and can cause long term harm, according to paediatricians.

The American Academy of Paediatrics fortified its recommendation against corporal punishment in updated guidelines.

Claiming it makes kids more aggressive and raises the danger of issues concerning mental health issues.

Experiencing corporal punishment makes it more, not less, likely that children will be defiant and aggressive in the future,” the group claim in it news guidelines to paediatricians.

There’s no benefit to spanking,” said Dr. Robert Sege of Tufts Medical Center in Boston, who helped to write the guidelines.

We know that children grow and develop better with positive role modeling and by setting healthy limits. We can do better.”

Today, @AmerAcadPeds put out another strategy against spanking.

Beating and cruel words are hurtful and aren’t effective. Here are 10 different approaches to discipline your youngster:

Verbal maltreatment and embarrassment is likewise counterproductive, according to the paediatrics group.

Parents, other caregivers, and adults interacting with children and adolescents should not use corporal punishment (including hitting and spanking), either in anger or as a punishment for or consequence of misbehavior, nor should they use any disciplinary strategy, including verbal abuse, that causes shame or humiliation,” the group says in the updated guidelines

“Within a few minutes, children are often back to their original behaviour. It certainly doesn’t teach children self-regulation,” Sege told NBC News.

Techniques such as time out and other effective forms of punishment, the goal is to teach the child to regulate herself, so that she will have the ability to control and manage her own behavior. And that’s what it really is all about.”

Americans still strongly believe in beating, spanking or paddling children, both at home and in school.

 

“According to a 2004 survey, approximately two-thirds of parents of young children reported using some sort of physical punishment,” the paediatrics group said.

These parents reported that by fifth grade, 80 percent of children had been physically punished, and 85 percent of teenagers reported exposure to physical punishment, with 51 percent having been hit with a belt or similar object.”

According to a 2004 survey, approximately two-thirds of parents of young children reported using some sort of physical punishment,” the paediatrics group said.

These parents reported that by fifth grade, 80 percent of children had been physically punished, and 85 percent of teenagers reported exposure to physical punishment, with 51 percent having been hit with a belt or similar object.”

Following a Harris Interactive poll in 2013 it found that 70 percent of parents agreed with the statement:

That “good, hard spanking is sometimes necessary to discipline a child,” despite it being down from 84 percent of parents in 1986.

But things have changed, said Sege.

“If you limit your surveys to people who have a child aged 5 years and younger in their homes, who are a new generation of parents, most of them don’t like to spank their children and often don’t spank their children,” he said.

“We think there’s a generational shift where today’s parents are much less likely to spank their children than their parents were.

One group studied parents in their home and discovered that many parents did give kids a verbal warning before physically striking out.

However they did not wait long.

Corporal punishment then occurred at a mean of 30 seconds later, suggesting that parents may have been ‘responding either impulsively or emotionally rather than instrumentally and intentionally,’” the paediatrics group said.

It did little good.

The effects of corporal punishment were transient: within 10 minutes, most children (73 percent) had resumed the same behaviour for which they had been punished.”

Hitting kids not only does little good; it can make their long-term behaviour worse.

Children who experience repeated use of corporal punishment tend to develop more aggressive behaviours, increased aggression in school, and an increased risk of mental health disorders and cognitive problems,” Sege said in a statement.

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Mom Looks At Newborn’s Face And Knows It’s Not Hers, Then She Takes A DNA Test

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Rich Cushworth and his wife Mercy Casanalles experienced love when they met at Christ for the Nations missionary school in Dallas.

Once Mercy got pregnant, she needed to return home to deliver the baby, as she was in Texas with a temporary visa from El Salvador.

Rich remained in the U.S. waiting his wife’s arrival home. But, when the attendant gave Mercy her infant child Jacob, she knew something was awfully wrong.

“When I got him, I stated, ‘This isn’t my infant,’” Mercy explains.

Something in her gut, perhaps her maternal intuition, felt this was not her baby.

Yet, how was she to know? And so, they took the new arrival home.

Following two or three months, Mercy decided to complete a DNA test. Turns out Jacob was not their child.

She had constantly felt it, however it was difficult to acknowledge.  Mercy and Rich established a solid bond with him regardless.

The main inquiry left: where was their natural child?

Mercy and Rich returned Jacob to his biological family after reaching out to officials.

In any case, the El Salvadorian government weren’t exactly excited to welcome their biological child Moses.

They failed to give him a birth cert or visa to make a trip to the United States for a whole year.

After a long fight with the government, Rich and Mercy have finally returned home with their boy.

“[We’re] exceptionally grateful, extremely glad,” Rich said.


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This Guy Put Christmas Lights Around His House. Look Out For The American Flag!

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Christmas is almost on our doorstep and I guarantee many of you are getting in the spirit with lights and decorations.

Take a step back and see this staggering showcase! This Christmas lighting is a standout amongst others I have observed!

It is amazing to witness and it likewise fills your heart with pride for being American. I am certain a lot of thought went into making this!

This presentation was set up all through the Christmas of 2011. It was complete to pay tribute to our astonishing troops and fabulous veterans.

Over 1.3 million American troops have put their lives in danger and made a definitive forfeit for the nation since 1775.

The patriotic tunes playing in the background essentially add to the brilliance of the showcase screen!

Have a look at this amazing video!

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Psychologists Warn All Parents, “Don’t Allow Your Child To Watch Peppa Pig”.

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A group of experts at Harvard University did a study revealing that Peppa Pig is one of the main causes of autism among children.

This animated movie has achieved great success. There are many toys, t-shirts, and many other things with this character. However, the question still remains. Is this cartoon character good for children? The answer is NO.

According to experts, there is a proof that shows an increased in adversarial, snide, questioning, confrontation, and disrespectful behavior in children which results from watching cartoons such as Peppa Pig.

Peppa is downright rude and her parents allow her to get away with murder. There is an episode where Peppa and her brother George refused to tidy their room, but then their parents made it into a game.

When they finished, the brats trashed the room again, laughing arrogantly.

These are the unique features Peppa possesses:

  • Suffers from the syndrome of superiority;
  • Inappropriate behavior;
  • Imposes ideas regardless of others’ opinions;
  • Impolite;
  • Competitive (it does not how to lose);
  • Intolerant;
  • Disrespectful
  • Envious;
  • Arrogant;
  • Proud

There are parents who complained that their children copy the behavior of Peppa and her brother George, and some of them even banned the cartoon from being watched in their homes.

Thus, be very careful, all you parents out there. There is nothing special about Peppa Pig. The same applies to all the other programs.

Around 80% of the brain develops during the first few months until 3 years old. In case they spend a lot of time watching the TV, they will copy the forms of behavior that they see on TV.

Take a look at one family’s story in the video for more details on this topic:

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Channing Tatum Just Broke This News That Every Female Didn’t Want To Hear

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Every one of the signs are there to recommend that gossipy tidbits are valid about Channing Tatum and Jessie J.

Channing parted from his better half of almost 10 years, Jenna Dewan, earlier this year.

Since then there have been whispers about the sentiment between the Magic Mike and Bang Bang singer.

Channing was spotted leaving Jessie’s home in Los Angeles yesterday morning after purportedly remaining over on Halloween night.

We’re disappointed to affirm he wasn’t spruced up as Magic Mike, he is seen in photographs wearing a white baseball top as he leaves.

In the event that that is insufficient to affirm the bits of gossip.

He was then spotted arriving at Jessie J’s concert at The Wiltern in Los Angeles the previous evening with his 5 year old girl, Everly.

Channing purportedly brought his little girl backstage through a similar entrance Jessie J was seen using.

Despite the fact that we want the couple to enjoy all that life has to offer, we absolutely agree with this tweet.

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Bully lights girl’s hair on fire while classmates stand and laugh: ‘I thought I was going to die’

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There’s a valid reason why bullying is progressively catching the attention of people all over the world.

Campaigns to prevent bullying are becoming increasingly common.

Huge numbers of people excited about taking steps to prevent this horrendous practice come to a halt.

Shockingly, there’s still a bit to go. Bullying keeps is on on going issue in schools and the online world is known to fuel it more.

All instances of bullying are concerning however some are more terrifying than others.

13-year-old Nevaeh Robinson is your ordinary, active young girl.

One particular day as the eighth grader waited for her school bus to leave Samuel Gompers School in Philadelphia, this occurred.

The girl was fiercely assaulted by an individual eighth grader, leaving her in fear of her life.

A male colleague just strolled over to her with a lighter, placed it to her head and continued to light her hair ablaze.

Evidently, this was more alarming for Nevaeh.

However, the most horrific piece of this story is maybe that other students essentially stood watching and snickered as the occurrence unfurled before their eyes.

In the interim, a fire rapidly spread over Nevaeh’s head.

I thought I was going to die,” the youngster said.

Thanks to her sister, brother and a companion were close-by and acted the hero, helped to put out the flames as fast as possible.

Regardless of their efforts, the harm was done.

The high schooler’s hair was scorched and she suffered first degree burns on her head.

Her hairline presently has a few bald patches and she is compelled to wear a scarf because of the awful assault.

Her mother, Tanya Robinson, found what had happened to her little girl she was in total shock.

As indicated by Tanya, Nevaeh had never been bullied previously.

The mother is presently requesting that the bully be immediately removed from the school.

Most shocking of all, doctors have said that the assault could have been lethal.

The whole family, school and entire network were additionally stunned by the mercilessness of this act.

However Nevaeh is both physically and mentally recuperating.

Watch a report of the stunning story below:
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Bikers refuse to allow this happen after finding out marine’s remains being sent home by USPS.

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Jonathan Turner is a marine officer who served seven tours in Iraq and Afghanistan all for the sake of his nation.

Jonathan passed away at just 41 years of age after wounds that had unfortunately got the better of him.

People who have protected our rights and served us ought to be treated with more respect.

One group who concurs with this announcement are the Patriot Guard Riders (PGR).

The Patriot Guard Riders (PGR) portray themselves as a:

““non-profit organisation which ensures dignity and respect at memorial services honouring Fallen Military Heroes, First Responders and honourably discharged Veterans.”

They likewise fill void seats in churches if required.

Once Jonathan passed away in California, there was nobody in his family who could go to the place where he grew up for the memorial service.

Thats when the PGR stepped in and knew they needed to accomplish something.

No individual ought to be sent home via mail to their family.

Jonathan’s ashes should have been shipped 2,000 miles which was a huge errand for the PGR.

In only a couple of days nonetheless, they figured out how to compose a route and more than 100 MC folks were involved with the procedure.

A gathering of bikers drove Jonathan’s incinerated ashes to another gathering who they left the ashes with.

The gathering at that point drove the ashes to another gathering until  at long last his family received them.

“It’s heartwarming, to see all these people here,” Annie Glanton.

Jonathan’s mother explains “I know that he was loved by a lot of people.”

This made my day!

It’s simply beautiful to see individuals helping each other out and paying respect to the general population who put their lives on hold for us.

Take a look at the video clip below to see how everything occurred.

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Science Now Has A Readson Why Our Arm Pits Are To Ticklish

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Tickling is just a little bit of fun, right? Well that is until the point when you can’t stop or smack your knee against the wall.

What’s more, the tickler goes for similar spots – under arms, feet or ribs. As if they’ve done it a million times.

Yet, imagine a scenario in which we revealed to you that there could be a logical clarification behind it.

So for what reason you’re so sensitive – well with regards to your armpits in any event.

We went over a Reddit thread which claims that sensitive armpits have evolved because we have a major artery there.

As children we protected our under arm zone…

All jokes aside we went over something that appeared more genuine.

One Reddit user said: “We have ticklish armpits (at least most humans), because the skin is so soft and not accustomed to a lot of ‘hard’ friction or stress.

“Additionally, a great many nerves responsible for physical feeling are located there, hence the nerves are extra responsive to a foreign touch. So to speak.”

And the weird thing that makes sense is you can never tickle yourself… bet you’re trying to now, aren’t you?

The user continued: “Such nerves can be conditioned, or may not even be developed evenly over the course of ones live and are developed differently from person to person.

“Thus not all persons are ticklish under their armpits, or at their balls for that matter. Same applies to every other body region.”

When quizzed about how this theory works for the feet or hands, it was explained:

Most humans do not have ticklish hands due primarily to the fact that we use them so damn much and so much friction is applied over a lifetime.

“You may find ticklish hands on very old people and very young humans with very soft hands and nerves not accustomed to the requirements of everyday life. The feet work similar, you have a very soft skin underneath.”

So it’s all down to nerves and the softness of our skin in particular areas.

But how can we prevent it – apparently thats a mind game.

Tickling breaks down into two major types: Knismesis – the tingling sensation – and Gargalesis – the squirming, laughing, breath-stealing.

Scientists perceive the reason we laugh is all down to an evolutionary mechanism that’s meant to teach us self-defence.

So if you want to stop being so ticklish you have to use mind over matter and convince yourself that you don’t actually feel ticklish.

For example when walking along hot sand you tell yourself it’s freezing cold to stop your feet from burning.

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Calm any baby instantly by using this simple technique approved by doctors

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You probably didn’t realise reflexology is an ancient art of pain relieving, by applying pressure on certain points related to the body.

Reflexology can be of great help if you have little children, especially little babies, as they are still adjusting to being in their new world.

We reveal six ways you can use reflexology to soothe the pain of your child.

First relax the baby and boost blood flow with a foot rub or a warm bath.

Here is how to calm them down.

1. Stomach area Pain (Upper and Lower)

If your child shows signs of heartburn or constipation, massage the region between the center of the foot and the stack of your feet. In case they are experiencing gas and bloating in the lower intestine, try to massage your child between the center of the feet and the heel.

2. Stomach Pain (solar plexus)

Try rubbing the focal point on your foot and go towards the start of the curve so you can reach the so called, Solar Plexus where nerves and the lungs are settled. This will help with gastric inconveniences, spasms, and other issues.

3. Head and Teeth Ache

Simply rub your child’s tips on the toes.

4. Chest

If your kid is experiencing chest block, just tenderly press and rub the stack of his/her feet.

5. Pelvis

Massage your child’s heels in order to reduce the symptoms of the sudden development of certain organs in its tiny body.

6.Sinus Pain

To prevent this all you have to do is rub the inside of your child’s toes.

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School demands parents take responsibility – now this poster is going viral.

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It’s a never ending question: as to where a school’s responsibilities begin, and where they end?

This is particularly applicable while thinking about where to adhere to a meaningful boundary between what establishes parent’s obligations and a school’s.

A Portuguese school chose to finally clear up the issue, by putting a publication in its corridors and the message they’re sending is spreading like wildfire

The school’s sign was shared on Facebook later, where the message contained inside it began to rapidly circulate online.

The basic but compelling message highlights five key points which the school is determined should be managed by the parents, as follows:

Have a read of the sign below:

“Dear parents

  • We would like to remind you that magic words such as hello, please, you’re welcome, I’m sorry, and thank you, all begin to be learned at home
  • It’s also at home that children learn to be honest, to be on time, diligent, show friends their sympathy, as well as show utmost respect for their elders and all teachers.
  • Home is where they learn to be clean, not talk with their mouths full, and how/where to properly dispose of garbage.
  • Home is also where they learn to be organized, to take good care of their belongings, and that it’s not ok to touch others.
  • Here at school, on the other hand, we teach language, math, history, geography, physics, sciences, and physical education. We only reinforce the education that children receive at home from their parents.

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